Ca sĩ Phương Vy: 'Tôi từng muốn bỏ nghề vì bị miệt thị, chê bai'

The artist said no scandal and tricks to attract media, but in the career of 'holding the mic' for more than 10 years, the female singer has many times been gossiped and disparaged.

Phuong Vy told her husband who wiped her tears countless times because of the pressure after childbirth

With voice quality, methodical vocal techniques, Phuong Vy "holds" herself with many noble music awards: Champion of Vietnamese music idols in the first season, Champion of the top of competition ... The thoughts The career of female singers will be smooth and advance but few would have thought there was a time when she did not dare to go out and intended to quit singing.

That was the time Phuong Vy performed the role of motherhood, female singer gained weight continuously, lost control. Along with these are the announcements canceling the show continuously from brands, companies daily, making her pressure and hurt every hour.

Thinking back to that time, Phuong Vy pityed:  “When Vy was the first time she became a mother instead of being blessed, someone was disparaging and decrying because of her oversized body after giving birth. Vy was scolded by thousands of people, her career door would be closed. Vy read the cruel words, coldly judged and contempted her appearance. It was like a thousand sharp blades, followed by calls, messages canceling the daily, hourly show… ” .

Phuong Vy confided that she was very grateful to her husband for the times when she was the most pressured and always encouraged and comforted by him

Besides, Phuong Vy also suffered physical pain and burst into tears when she felt helpless:  "At that time Vy had just given birth a month. In the days when Vy tried to step up her stairs, her knees hurt, her back was numb. Vy's tears kept fluttering because she thought that if she was in such pain, she would never be able to step on the stage again and it seemed like she had turned her back on Vy .

And as if the fear of clinging to the young artist, Phuong Vy momentarily thought about giving up her career. She was weak because she had to undergo physical pain to give birth and was ruthlessly judged. She was weak because she felt useless when she read the articles that praised others to reduce 20kg, 30kg within a week after giving birth. She was heartbroken because she was helpless when her body was still weak so she couldn't do much to regain her physique.

And then, she was afraid because she would be forgotten, her career went to the end. “There is a fear that Vy has never dared to say. Vy feared that her child was thirsty for milk, because of the stress that caused her to lose her milk to her child during that time. Vy thought about giving up singing for her children, ” Phuong Vy said.

In order to overcome the pressure of public opinion and want to prove that she can do it, Phuong Vy rushed into the training room to resolve her figure.

“That time period is extremely dark for Vy. You can imagine after a month of hard training a day and two sessions, but not how much weight is lost, try to imagine after 1 and a half months of raising children, returning from a hard training session, sitting in a corner of a house. I tried to drink every drop of milk for my baby but not much, the work was unfinished. Vy is just a normal woman, how can Vy be strong in those moments. So Vy respects and loves Sean very much, the dark moments in her life, fortunately, has Sean beside her, not knowing how many times he wiped Vy's tears, how many days Vy took herself to the corner, only cried. and cry. Sean hugged and did not let Vy push her away because it was really like a lonely, unsightly, porcupine "hedgehog" because of her inability and frustration surging through her mind , " she said. .

When looking back at the previous time, Phuong Vy revealed that she always kept it with photos. Each photo for a female singer is a sign of life, whether it is beautiful or ugly ... Even when her body is round, her skin is dark after giving birth, she still retains those photos to look back and proud. She said:  “Vy does not use the exchange words to talk about what Vy has done to have happiness today. Vy works, Vy tries and Vy respects to achieve what Vy has today . "

According to Thanh Nien